Influencer Courtney Palmer It was initially surprised when his “princess treatment” videos caused a decline.
“My content was reaching a community of 16,000 followers and I was grateful to have a very sweet community. Suddenly, during the night, I thought,” Oh, Gosh, some of these comments are means, “said Palmer People In an interview published on Saturday, July 5. “Then I thought,” It’s fine, it will work in 48 hours. “
He added: “People started making more videos, and I was completely shocked and I felt bad. I didn’t mean that, and they lack a context of the other videos. I didn’t think the reaction would continue for as long as I had it. We break my heart, we are all trying to do our best.”
Some of the Palmer’s Now-viral videos He revealed that he follows the guidelines for “princess treatment” when he goes out with her husband, which means that she will not open her doors or order her own meals at a restaurant. Palmer beliefs soon led to criticism of allegedly playing in stereotypical gender roles instead of planting themselves.
“I speak, laughs, I make decisions in my life. We go out and have beautiful dinners,” she said People, denying claims. “I enjoy the grace of my husband taking leadershipconfirming the reservation he made. He removes my chair, orders for me after I decided what I would like to eat. It is not control, it is the care. “”
Palmer also admits that different individuals could have different definitions of “princess treatment”. For her, she said on the way out that this is a “gentle way of living”.
“It begins with the way of taking care of yourself. It is not him, but of you. You are choosing softness, calmness and grace. It is very intentional,” said Palmer. “You are kindly talking to yourself. You’re making room for this peace embrace your female energy without shame.”
She added: “The princess’s treatment is not how someone else appears to you. It’s how you take you, how you keep the limits, the way you move around the world, knowing that you are the prize. The world learns to deal with -in this way. Your softness does not offer anyone control.
According to Palmer, she wants her 18 -year -old husband to act as a protector, supplier and partner.
“I am and goes over to do -to feel loved. It has always been the case. We have never had a conversation about any of the things I speak in any of my videos, we only fell,” he said. “This is what I try to explain through my videos. When presented in a certain way, it will act in this way, of course. It is not about forcing or manipulating. You are not playing a game.”