glee alum bee is duplicating his thoughts on Matthew Butthe involvement of Ashley Tisdalethe “toxic” drama of the mother.
“Now I’m telling you, I don’t think there’s a loser. There’s not a loser in this group, to me, not one, except for Hilary Duffthe husband,” Tobin, 39, said during the Tuesday, Jan. 13, episode of the “LadyGang” podcast.. “I think it’s really gross when husbands jump in and get mean. Especially since Ashley didn’t name names.”
Tobin explained that things would have been different if Tisdale, 40, had put names on her initial the cut article, but it wasn’t like that.
“It really rubs me the wrong way when a man inserts himself like that and it’s just for attention,” the former said. glee the star continued.
Ashley Tisdale French’s no-holds-barred comment about being kicked out of a “toxic” mom group has caught the attention of many celebrities. In January 2026, Ashley, who shares two daughters with husband Christopher French, raised eyebrows with an essay for The Cut titled “Breaking Up With My Toxic Mom Group” as she candidly (…)
Co-host of “LadyGang”. Jac Vanek told listeners that Koma is someone known for “stirring the pot” online.
“He always inserts himself into things. It’s not that surprising that he would do it in this situation like a normal husband,” Vanek continued. “I wouldn’t want my husband to do that.”
Tobin’s biggest issue with Koma is that he publicly “attacked a woman.”
“He called her self-obsessed, or whatever. She said something about herself, and I think it’s so tacky,” Tobin said. “I would be very upset with my husband, whether I got along with this person or not. We had a fight. Whatever. She goes down, and then he goes down.”
The actress continued: “I think it’s actually really gross when a man says something like that. It’s offensive because of what he said about her. I don’t like it at all.”
Tisdale caused quite a stir when she revealed that she left her “toxic mom group.” the cut article published earlier this month. The former Disney Channel star didn’t name any other stars in her former friend group. However, this has been widely reported Hilary Duff, Mandy Moore i Meghan Trainoramong other stars, they participated. (Tisdale’s rep denied had written about any list A.)
Hilary Duff opened up about cutting ties with friends months before drama erupted over Ashley Tisdale French’s essay about a group of “toxic” moms. When asked on a November 2025 episode of the “Therapuss” podcast if “trusting people (was) hard” for her at an early age, Duff, 38, replied, “Yeah, there were some people where (…)
Duff’s husband, Komaseemed to confirm this when she responded to Tisdale’s comment with a post on social media. He published an article of his own with a similar title to what Tisdale had written.
“A group of moms tell it all through the eyes of a dad,” Koma posted. “When you’re the most obsessed tone-deaf person on earth, other moms tend to focus on their little ones.”
Tobin was initially critical of Koma’s involvementwriting, “Ew,” upon seeing how Tisdale was mocked before discussing the whole situation further during Tuesday’s episode of the podcast.
“I don’t know much about the inner workings of the toxic mom group,” Tobin clarified. “I can see both sides. I can understand why. This is where she’s at in her life. This is where she’s at in her life. A young mom with young kids. Your world revolves around your kids, so your world becomes your group of friends. And I think she was just trying, and it’s relatable, so many women deal with that and become the mom group.”
He continued: “I understand why he did it, but what I don’t understand is that someone in his life should have told him, the internet sleuths of America, of the world, are so amazing that in three seconds they’ll know this article is out, exactly who you’re talking about.”