Haley Kalil and ex-husband Matt Kalil were on friendly terms after 2022 divorcebut a recent viral comment from the influencer may have caused a rift between them.
In November 2025, Haley stated during a live broadcast that Matt’s penis size was the “biggest factor” in their split. The TikToker’s confession quickly circulated on social media at the time, prompting Haley to issue a follow-up statement.
“I really care about respecting their privacy and the integrity of what we shared together. During our live stream we talked about a lot more than what’s being highlighted: the love in our marriage, the growth we’ve experienced, the depth of our connection,” she said. TMZ sports shortly after the live broadcast. “It’s unfortunate that only a snippet is amplified because it doesn’t capture the full story of how meaningful things were for me. I hope (the) hour-and-a-half conversation reflects more than just a fun bite.”
Despite his clarification, Matt filed a lawsuit against his ex-wife in January 2026, alleging that she made “invasive comments” and brought him “unwanted attention” with his live comments.
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When did Haley Kalil and Matt Kalil get divorced?
Haley married Matt in Hawaii in July 2015, when she was about 21 years old. The marriage lasted until May 2022, when the former Sports Illustrated swimsuit model filed for divorce from the former Minnesota Vikings player, citing “irreconcilable differences.” TMZ informed in due course.
Haley, who first went viral on TikTok an apartment tour video Shortly after the divorce, she has reiterated to fans on multiple occasions that she and Matt ended their relationship amicably. The internet personality opened up about her marriage and subsequent split from Matt in January 2024 YouTube video, prefacing her comments by saying that her ex “really likes her privacy” and wants to “respect that.”
“So please, guys, be nice,” he continued. “If you don’t know, I grew up in a smaller town in Minnesota and spent pretty much my whole life there. I met my ex when I was 20 at a local restaurant in Minnesota when we were hanging out with friends, and literally six months after that date, we got married, which looking back is crazy because we were only 21 and that’s right, so young to get married, but I was also very young to get married in Minnesota. Ex and I we were very young.”
Haley added that she and Matt had “absolutely no idea what it was like to be married, what it was like to be in love, or what we both needed from a marriage.”
“Even though we were best friends, the marriage was rough and eventually, years later, we decided to stay friends, so we ended up getting a divorce, and luckily, because we were friends, the divorce was very easy,” she continued. “There was no fight, there was no fight even while we were getting divorced. We continued to hang out as friends because at the end of the day we are friends.”
Haley said the marriage taught them both “a lot about what we need in a marriage and what love really means to us.”
“We’re both very happy and we’re still friends because if you care about someone and you love them, you can navigate almost any situation, yes, even divorce, and now I know why it’s so important to surround yourself with good people because when you really care about someone and they really care about you, you have the other person’s best interest at heart,” she added.
Since then, Matt has moved on with the model Keilani Asmus. The couple married in April 2024 and welcomed a son. As for Haley, it is unclear if she is currently in a relationship. He has been dating a model lately Kyle Vieirabut confirmed their separation in August 2025.
Haley Kalil comments on Matt Kalil’s penis size during live stream
In November 2025, Haley claimed this during a Twitch live stream the size of Matt’s manhood caused problems in their relationship.
“(This happened) our whole marriage,” she said. “I was going to try everything — therapists, doctors (and I) went for lipo-type crap, you know what I mean? That’s why it’s kind of funny. It’s like my life is a comedy and it writes itself.”
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Haley added: “It was, like, he’s 0.01 percent of the population. We tried everything (and it was) impossible unless you cry.”
Matt Kalil is suing Haley Kalil for invasion of privacy
While Matt initially remained silent amid his ex’s viral livestream, he later filed a lawsuit against Haley on Tuesday, January 6.
Matt claimed in his filing that Haley’s words “implied that the size of (Matt’s) genitalia was a primary factor in the parties’ divorce and claimed that intercourse … would leave her ‘in tears,'” according to court documents obtained by Us Weekly. As a result, he has allegedly been forced to “endure the ongoing public circulation of these deeply personal and degrading statements.”
Matt also claimed that Haley was able to “financially benefit from this increased traffic.” He asked to receive damages “for all causes asserted in the complaint,” with the total amount “in excess of $75,000,” according to the outlet.
Haley responded to the lawsuit in a statement a we.
“I am truly shocked and incredibly hurt to hear of this filing. Litigation is a harrowing and emotionally draining experience, and I am heartbroken that he chose to subject us and our families to this ordeal,” the statement said, adding that Haley also congratulated Matt several times during the live broadcast, including when she called him “the best in the world.”
“The truth is in the original live stream. I talk a lot about him in multiple ways throughout this conversation,” he concluded.
Haley Kalil plans to move to dismiss Matt Kalil’s lawsuit
Haley’s lawyer Matthew Bialick said the influencer plans to move to dismiss Matt’s lawsuit in a statement to people on January 7, 2026, saying “the case lacks legal support.”
“The claims seek to dramatically expand existing law and set a harmful new precedent by holding a woman accountable for simply speaking openly and honestly about a past relationship,” Bialick told the outlet. “This raises serious First Amendment concerns, especially in a case involving two public figures.”
Matt’s lawyer Ryan Saba argued in a statement a we that Haley “revealed private and intimate details about Matt Kalil that were not of legitimate public interest and subjected Matt Kalil and his family to widespread ridicule and unwanted attention.”
“(Haley) Kalil shared these sensitive personal details about her ex-husband in an apparent quest to seek fortune and fame,” the statement continued. “His actions were extreme, outrageous, beyond all possible bounds of decency, and have caused substantial harm to Matt Kalil, his family and his business.”
In a separate statement a weadded Haley’s attorney, “The lawsuit alleges that Ms. Kalil claimed that sex with Mr. Kalil would leave her ‘tearful.’ Allowing that allegation to form the basis of a legal claim would mean that a woman could be sued simply for truthfully describing physical pain during sex, which is inconsistent with the First Amendment.”